Yes, based on my experience I think so, every single woman I've been more than casually intimate with has shared fantasies like this once they felt safe confiding it, some were more up front than others, but every single one went there when they were aroused. Some of my casual encounters and near misses (with drunk girls and coworkers) straight up asked to be used and degraded.
100% agree. It’s on the dom to keep the sub safe, and their confidence, and their ability to communicate as a result, is massively important. Without that, you don’t have a scene, you just have an assault.